12 December 2024
By Roger Kennedy
roger@TheCork.ie
We live in an era of constant change and innovation, one in which the pace of progress can sometimes be disorienting. Although some change comes as a welcome convenience, there are times when we need to rely on our customs and traditions. One such occasion is in the passing of a loved one. From the wake, to the funeral itself and the reception afterwards, Ireland has many traditions around death that we continue to turn to for guidance at the most difficult of times. We hope to explain why the Irish memorial card is another such enduring custom.
A Tangible Connection
While the digital age has facilitated connection far beyond what was possible in the past, it has come with a price. As the novelty of social media has waned and been replaced by a glut of information, we often find ourselves desensitised and overwhelmed by the algorithm. Scrolling through our feed we hear of a birthday here, another wedding there, and sadly, the occasional tribute to the deceased. Although these might be seen by many, they will likely be missed by most. This is where printed memorial cards differ.
Unlike a digital post which feels impersonal, memorial cards are given only to those who value the memory and tribute and will treasure it. Its physical nature, the very touch and feel of the cards helps you remember the departed in a more immediate, personal way than one post among many in your timeline does.
An Evolving Tradition
Perhaps the idea of tradition might imply something fixed or unchanging, however many traditions change and adapt to reflect contemporary culture. The origin of Ireland’s tradition of memorial cards rests in our history of Catholicism, and for many people this will still be reflected in the memorial card they choose. For some people, a religious memorial card will preserve the memory of their loved one in a way that honours the significance of their faith to them. They might choose iconography like a cross, rosary beads, a pilgrimage site or a church they loved, or perhaps a saint to whom they looked in their time of need.
However, as many people today do not profess a specific faith, their loved ones will select cards that honour their memory in another way that feels authentic to their memory. We have a variety of scenic, floral and pastime based designs to choose from, or alternatively we can create custom designs based on photos or instruction you provide.
Remembering our Roots
Roots and memory are important to all people, but they have a particular resonance for the Irish people. Many of us have a deep connection not only to the country, but especially to their locality. They take great pride in the deep roots their family might have in an area, and memorial cards serve as a lasting testament to that connection, preserving memories for future generations. Preserving such memories is particularly helpful for those longer present in their place of origin. From internal migration to emigration and the Irish diaspora, the movement of Irish people is yet another enduring tradition. Memorial cards can be of particular significance in cases like this, acting as memento and keepsake for a person and place no longer present.
Final Thoughts
Memorial cards remain an enduring part of Irish culture, bridging past, present, and future. They honour the memory of loved ones, connect us to our heritage, and preserve stories for generations to come. Whether deeply rooted in faith or reflecting personal passions, these keepsakes are a testament to the bonds that define us and the places we hold dear.